Grief doesn’t move the same way for everyone…
Your astrology chart is a personalized mirror — showing how loss moves through you, what steadies you, and where wisdom lives inside the wound.
This isn't about fixing grief.
It's about seeing it clearly, honoring how it lives in you, and finding your way toward remembering with more love than pain.
Here you can work with me through private Grief Astrology readings or self-paced grief courses.
When grief reshapes everything and the world keeps expecting you to ‘move on’, it can feel like you’re doing it wrong.
You’re not.
There's nothing broken about how you carry this. There's no timeline you're supposed to be following. And no one else can tell you what your grief needs — because no one else is living your story.
Astrology doesn't give you answers. It reflects what's already true.
It shows how your heart processes loss, what makes you feel safe when nothing feels safe, and where your deepest wounds hold your deepest wisdom.
What Astrology Offers in Grief
A personalized mirror
Your chart reflects emotional patterns — how you grieve, what steadies you, where meaning wants to emerge.
Permission not Pressure
No fixing. No rushing. Space to see yourself clearly and trust your own timing.
The Sacred Triangle
Your Moon, Saturn, and Chiron — emotional sanctuary, steady ground, and wisdom in the wound.
When you want support without committing to a course or a session:
Your Grief. Your Timeline. Your Way.
A self-guided grief companion — a booklet and audio meditations you can return to whenever grief feels heavy.
Ways to Work With Me
When you want personal support or aren’t sure where to begin:
Private Grief Astrology Reading
A one-on-one session using your astrology chart as a personalized mirror for how grief moves through you.
When you want a self-paced journey and are ready to tend your grief over time:
Grief Alchemy
A self-paced course using the elements and astrology to offer language, support, and context for grief over time.
About
I'm Debra White — a grief astrologer and coach.
I work with people navigating loss, life transitions, and the kind of change that reshapes who you thought you were.
I don't teach grief.
I don't fix it.
I hold space while your chart reflects what your soul already knows — and walk beside you as you find your way.
Client Love
Changed Everything
"I’ve always had an ease around loss, an ability to hold space for others without needing to fix or avoid it. But I never knew where that came from, or why grief felt so familiar. This reading gave me words for it. It reflected back a part of me I’ve always felt but never fully understood. For the first time, I saw that my way of moving through the world wasn’t strange—it was my gift. That changed everything."
- Mary Y, Kelowna BC
A Key to Acceptance
"This reading was like being handed a key to a door I didn’t know I had closed. I didn’t need fixing. I needed to be reminded that my way of grieving, of feeling, of remembering…was already enough. For the first time, I saw my pain not as a problem, but as part of my path."
- Sarah P, Queensland AUS
A Beautiful Blueprint
"Having had my chart ‘done’ in the past with mixed results, Debra was the first to encourage me to fall in love with my chart and recognize my own beautiful blueprint. Debra has the amazing ability to ground esoteric wisdom in steps you can apply to everyday challenges and opportunities, recognizing your own unique way of being in the world. I highly recommend Debra to anyone seeking a deeper connection with your birth chart that provides tangible methods for honouring your own unique gifts and talents. "
- Melita C, Portland OR
When the time feels right, there’s a place here for you.
You don't need to be "ready."
You don't need to know what kind of support you're looking for.
You don't need to have words for what you're carrying.
Begin with personal support or move at your own pace.
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